Name:   Talullahhound - Subject:   Close family ties Date:   6/30/2017 9:13:09 PM

i guess I am just not feeling you.  I know the difference between a refugee and an immigrant.  It's harder on refugees, because most of the time, they are fleeing politcal oppression.  In most cases, grandparents choose to stay behind.  In the case of immigration, the family makes a decision to immigrate.  They know that they are leaving their other life behind. 

I don't know why you find this so sad.